The Heart Break Hotel: How to manage after a break up

Going through a breakup can be a difficult and painful experience, but there are several ways to manage it and make the process less overwhelming. Here are some tips that can help:

  1. Allow yourself to grieve: It’s important to acknowledge your emotions and give yourself time to grieve the end of the relationship. Don’t try to suppress your feelings, as this can prolong the healing process. Instead, allow yourself to feel and process your emotions.
  2. Take care of yourself: Self-care is essential during this time. Make sure you are getting enough sleep, eating well, exercising, and taking care of your mental health. You may also want to try activities that help you relax, such as meditation, yoga, or taking a hot bath.
  3. Seek support: Lean on your friends and family for emotional support. Talking to someone about how you feel can help you process your emotions and feel less alone. You may also want to consider seeking professional help, such as therapy or counseling.
  4. Cut off contact: It’s important to give yourself space from your ex-partner to help you heal. Avoid contacting them, unfollow them on social media, and remove any reminders of them from your daily life.
  5. Focus on the future: While it’s important to process your emotions, it’s also important to focus on the future. Set new goals for yourself, try new hobbies, or focus on your career. Doing things that make you feel good about yourself can help you move on from the breakup.

Remember, managing a breakup is a process, and it’s okay to take things one day at a time. Be kind to yourself and give yourself the time and space you need to heal.


Published by Tahiry Devine

Hello to all, my name is Tahiry Devine and welcome to this sacred space of healing, encouragement, and community through the ideals of wombman-hood, Mothering, and awakening of the Divine Feminine as told through my journey. As a wombman of color, I aspire to share not only my spiritual journey and life hacks I have learned over the years but to collaborate with wombman all over who desire to share and walk in their Divine calling. Wholeness and Love

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