How I found myself in The Maiden, The Mother, & The Crone

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The Maiden, the Mother and, the Crone:

I was first introduced to this concept when I began my Goddess journey back in 2014. At that time it felt so revealing of me on my own journey as a woman and womanhood. This concept started to add pieces of what I believed was missing in my experience and ability to maneuver in life.

I wasn’t new to the idea archetypes but I was new to the notion of implementing archetypes in my life and thus seeing myself in one or all three. Awakening the Divine Feminine lead me into my own journey of self discovery and self realization. I immediately saw where I fit in the different archetypes and I fully intended in mastering myself in each one. I felt fluid between the maiden and the mother, it wasn’t until as of recently of last week that I really felt the embodiment of Mother archetype.

Just to give a brief introduction to these archetypes from my perspective:

Maiden is the phase of womanhood/femininity where she is realizing her creatrix/creative/sexual energy. This is the phase of apprenticeship; many mistakes and lessons during this phase. It is the tapping into the potency of attraction and manifestation.

Mother is the accountability of creative/sexual energy. She has mastered her ability and consciously creates, destroys, and rebuild. She activates within her own power and embodies the teacher and caregiver to her creations.

Crone is the most potent and powerful of all. She rests in her knowing and is the epitome of the right application of knowledge, i.e wisdom, that the Maiden and Mother can hope for and achieve with discipline and persistence. She is the Grand-Mother. She is the representation of gains and loss. In this phase she may lose a lot; but her gains for more greater than any loss. She is the bridge between the waking and dream world.

My Experience As Maiden and Mother

I can honestly say that I left my maidenhood just a few days short before last week. For me there was much difficulty in this phase in life because I felt like I did not have the proper guidance to be an apprentice. I maneuvered my maidenhood slightly foolishly, as anyone would given the circumstances. Fortunately, I was a little more wiser than my peers and I still made very good choices despite some haughty decisions.

During my maiden phase I became a mother, I honestly believed that I naturally fell into the archetype of Mother because I birthed children, nurtured and cared for them. I was married, in my career field, bought a house, and drove a nice car. I felt that was all I needed to be Mother. It was not until the last year and a half, while coming to the end of my Saturn Return that I came into the full realization of accountability in my life, present, past, and future. My maidenhood was a seesaw of depression, some deep-seated, and anxiety, sometimes so bad I would not sleep for days.

I was completely unsure of myself, my life path, and my relationships with work and family. It wasn’t until my encounter with the Goddess Kali that I fully understood or coming to understand what my life was like and where I was or wanted to be. I will share more on this encounter along with my Saturn Return at a later post. After Saturn left my sign, I thought now I had graduated to the next phase. I realized what I needed to see and now I have arrived. I found out soon that it did not work like that. Immediately I experienced what is called in the Tarot, a Tower moment in life. Just as I was becoming into more of what I thought I knew, literally everything fell apart. My marriage, my career, my finances they all were stricken by the Tower. At that point I was in complete reset mode.

Like I shared earlier, it wasn’t until last week that I felt the initiation of the shift the awakening of my cells into my mother archetype. I shared on my Youtube video  of the Cancer New Moon Solar Eclipse, how everything is happening for you. And in retrospect, not only do I see it, I feel it too. I have been a practitioner of the Tantric Arts for a little over three years now; coming into my fourth year, I feel stability and expansion in my own personal power. As aforementioned, the mother archetype has little to do with birthing physical children but has everything to do with honing and owning your creative power and being accountable with how you use it.


Knowing how to properly harness it express it and maneuver freely in it is what make you embody the archetype of the mother. Just a few weeks before the Cancer New Moon, my cycle was a little over six days late. I was confused to why this was and the several nights I kept having dreams pregnancy related dreams; one I was actually giving birth. Its funny how you can know better, but not actually know better. My dream was speaking straight up to me.

I decided to take a pregnancy test; prior to buying the pregnancy test my spirit was already telling me you’re with child but not with child. I could hear my Inner Voice speaking to me but I still was listening to my outer Voice to drive me to the pharmacy and buy several pregnancy tests, which all came back negative. The point I’m making is, I was pregnant but not in a physical sense, I was with a child and I was the child. I was the mother looking at the child (or new version) of me and nurturing her loving her affirming her and reminding her of her power.

I saw in what felt like a vision or premonition, I was telling this new me that everything that happens in her life was because she chose it and that she too can choose another life. At that moment I took responsibility for everything that took place in my life and soon to take place in my life. I accepted to be accountable of my own life.  I took ownership of my experiences of my knowledge and my wisdom. I felt responsible to myself and for I had to say, teach, or share.

and there was my graduation into my initiation.

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#GetOut with the New Moon in Leo & Partial Solar Eclipse


It is time to #GetOut! Get out of Self Doubt, Self Sabotage, Self Loathing, Fear, and Stagnation. The cosmos is aligned for us to become who we truly are. Live life free from fear and all that holds us back! This eclipse season is all about shining light on our shadows so that we can fully encompass who we truly are!

However, in order to do that we have to know that Intention is EVERYTHING! This has been the Major Key Alert for 2018: intent and awareness. We can not make intentions if we are not aware of what we want and where we need to make change to embrace the new. However, if you have been aligning yourself with the last series of eclipses and retrogrades, you are more than aware of what you need to do; now its time to do it! #roar Lioness and Lions

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The Leo New Moon and the Eclipse is saying it is time to BE. No more thinking, no more excuses; give it your all or nothing at all. This is the change or evolving that you have been desiring! We are Living out loud from our Heart Chakra and Solar Plexus Chakra, and with a kiss from the Divine through our Third Eye Chakra. We are being activated to live in our Glow Up. But you have to Receive it

Celebrate yourself, your uniqueness, quirkiness, the splendor of who all you are. You are golden, baby. Do yourself a favor and stop hiding it.



The Lions Gate Portal #888 Activation What does this mean?

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What is the Lions Gate Portal?

Every year of the eighth month and the 8th day which falls on August 8 is when the Earth, Sun, and Star Sirius are in cosmic alignment within the Leo zodiac. The Leo is associated to living from a heart centered courage and represent us shining like the Sun in our individual expression of the Divine.  To name it plainly, light travels and carries information, and the light from the Sirius in conjunction with the light of the Sun is being aligned to Earth. This alignment is said to create an increase the inhabitants of the Earth’s awareness of the spiritual aspect of our earthly existence. Think of it like the “veil” between the two worlds is thin, creating more energy awareness and life changing events so that we can take hold of our lives and opportunities that invite the change that we seek.

Within the last few months with the many planets that went retrograde and the eclipses, we have all on some level felt a shift in how we think, feel, and want to act or behave. This for many, has brought up much anxiety and uncertainty as in what steps to take and for others there has been clarity and newfound confidence. No matter where you may fall within this spectrum, change is definitely a factor for all of us. So what makes this particular cosmic event different? From my inner-standing, this cosmic event of aligning the spiritual world with the physical world creates access for us to not just connect with God/Universe, Higher self, our angels, or even ancestors, but also opens us up to be more receiving to the divine messages or downloads they are giving us. I am a firm believer that the divine is always making attempts to send signs or messages, however, we are often distracted by the fast-pace movement of our current society which can create barriers from the spiritual.

This spiritual gateway is reminding us to slow down and listen with our heart and inner ear to our divine consciousness for the direction that we are to go. There is an acceleration of time and an influx of information that is competing for our attention, much of it for our benefit; but with this information overload we can get bogged down, or worst yet analysis paralysis.

The Lions Gate portal power is a symbol of everything divine: energy, courage, femininity, masculinity, bravery, dichotomizing everything, yet bringing it too within its folds. This would allow us to believe that things are changing, and we need to be aware that things aren’t going to be the same for us anymore. Life is constantly changing.

This is where the number 8 is profound as it is the sign on infinity and stability. The influence of the number 8 signifies a time when we are more aware of the infinite possibilities and opportunities that are before us once we open ourselves to receive it. The number 8 also represents how we take control of the situations before us and realize that we need to work on everything that we have been missing out on. Importantly releasing and moving away from all that does not serve us in our lives anymore. This could range from relationships, friendships, jobs, locations, thought patterns, habits, etc. The Lions Gate is about honoring your past because it made you or assisted in defining who you are today so that you can become the person you desire to be.

What areas in your life are feeling the need to change or evolve? How has your past helped shape you into the person you are and who you desire to become? Please share below in the comments! Until next time!

XO, Tahiry




Are you seeing 11:11 or Repeating Numbers? What do they mean?

Have you been seeing repeating numbers such as: 111, 1111, 222, 333, or any repeating sequence of numbers? What do they mean? If you are seeing any of these numbers or set of sequence numbers it is a message from your angels, ancestors, or Higher-Self/God trying to make you aware of something.

Before there were letters or writing, numbers was the and is the first language or form of communication. Numbers are universal and will always be what they ae despite of culture, religion, or dimensions. Every number has an energetic vibrational/spiritual meaning, beginning with 0 to infinite.

The number 1 is a very important number, it represents new beginnings, individuality, uniqueness, manifestation and leadership. When we find 11, the first of the Master Numbers, it is considered as a symbol of inspiration, intuition, and connection with the higher aspect of yourself.

I began noticing sequent numbers back in 2014. I was going through the beginning of my spiritual awakening and a shift in my personal life. I first started seeing 111 and 1111; usually 1:11, 10:11 and 11:11. This would typically show up when I was either looking for an answer or confirmation on a decision or prayer I had.

I have learned on my path that when we see 11, 111, or 1111 we are asked by the Divine to check or pay attention to our thoughts and attitudes in revealing answers to our prayers. We are also being prompted to focus on our manifestations and not our fears.  Remember to trust your intuition as your are being divinely guided. Most importantly keep your thoughts positive and to avoid jealousy as it can damper your spirit and steer you away from your path in life.

If you are in a weak state or unsure as to what to do, call on the Divine, it will support you. 111 is telling you that you are supported and loved. Be mindful of your actions, you may be prompted to take action or start something new or of great importance for your life.

If see this number or any number sequence once or several times, it means you should take special attention to it and try to interpret the message that is being sent to you.



Root Chakra Healing Affirmation

The Solar Plexus: Taking Back Control of You


So far, in our Chakra series, we’ve covered Muladhara Chakra and Swadhistana Chakra. Today, we will explore Manipura Chakra.

Chakra,” in Sanskrit, translates to “wheel.” It implies a vehicle through which we perceive and believe as reality. Each chakra in our body corresponds to particular relationships we have had with others as well as our own physical organs, nervous system, senses, and body parts.

The 3rd Chakra, the Solar Plexus charka, is by far one of my favorite chakras. It is deemed the seat of our soul; meaning it is the center force of our identity, confidence and willpower. It is where the self-esteem, inner power and sense of responsibility originates; when it is strong we can accomplish and attain all that we wish and desire! Everything we need to be great is already inside of us. We need only to figure out how to access and harness it.

Located about six inches above your belly button within your diaphragm, the solar plexus chakra is associated with the color yellow and the element of fire. Physically, it supports your liver, pancreas, gallbladder, stomach and spleen. The lesson that this chakra provides is learning to relate to the self and express it fearlessly.

Daily Imbalance is Automatic. Daily Balancing Is A Choice

After matriculating the unconscious and subconscious of the Root and Sacral Chakra, our consciousness reaches the Solar Plexus to the realization of self. On a physical level, this chakra is the energy source, such as the digestive systems regulates energy from the foods we eat, on a spiritual or energetic level the Solar Plexus does the same. Think of it like this, we truly are what we eat. When we digest nutritionally dense and high vitality foods, we can expect our body to properly absorb and distribute the appropriate energy through out; and we can expect the adverse when we consume lesser quality foods.

When this chakra is imbalanced, one may experience feelings of powerlessness, shame and guilt. You may see any change in life as a threat to your well being or fear of the future. Fear of failure that you become stagnate or unmotivated, or feeling  as though your are limited or not “special enough” to accomplish anything. Also, the imbalance manifest on a physical level as digestive problems, ulcers, liver problems, gallstones, pancreas disorders such as diabetes or hypoglycemia; overeating or under eating.

My Story

I struggled with an imbalance in this chakra, and others, for many years. I grew up in a very strict military and religious family. Obedience and compliance was the main focal point of my upbringing, and any deviation was rendered with harsh punishment and even verbal belittlement. I became very anxious and nervous, terrified to make a mistake wanting to avoid punishment, I even internalized the religious God waiting to “strike me down” if I made any slight mistakes or forget to pray or read the bible.In addition, I was “picked” on about my weight by my family, although they “believed” it was out of fun, it made me very self conscious and my weight constantly yo-yo up and down through out my childhood through my early adult life.  I lived in constant fear of failing so much that I would not pursue my goals or dreams fully; I felt unworthy and underserving of happiness or success. And if I was to acquire any success, it was short lived, I would immediately remember some “failure” or “mistake” I made along the way, allowing unworthiness to creep back in.

I Healed My Story

I started my chakra healing journey about five years ago. I came to the point that I was tired of feeling as if life was passing me by, and mostly tired of being afraid. What has helped me along my journey was to forgive myself for every time I allowed fear of judgement or wrath stop me from speaking up for myself, for every project or idea that I did not complete, and for every over critical thought or words I said about myself. What I also came to realize is that anyone who has done anything great or doing something that is perceived great is just a person as well. The only difference is they are walking and living in their true power and confidence of their talents and gifts. We all have talents and gifts and with right application and cultivation, we can thrive and shine in them as well! Mostly everyone has self esteem issues. Mostly everyone is afraid of public speaking and mostly everyone is afraid of being a leader. When you realize these things, it makes it easier to take a stand and find the confidence it takes to do great things.

How to strengthen the Manipura Chakra

  1. Self Reflection

Let’s say you were a gardener. Your role is to care take the plants, herbs, or flowers that you are growing, so you would tend to any weeds that may sprout and shoo away any bugs from eating at your sprouting. You do not control how the sprouts grow, yet you foster the environment for it to grow; you and nature are in a symbiotic relationship to see these sprouts bloom and thrive. The same is for your life, goals, or any projects or anything that we take on in life. We are called to foster the environment so that our gifts and talents can thrive. We have a specific place and role in this universe while here on Earth, and we must nurture ourselves and allow God/Universe to do the same.

2. Redefinition

Shift your focus from accomplishment and accolades, and more to contribution. How do you contribute to the world? What difference do you make when you walk and live fully in who you are and what you can do? Accomplishments fuel the ego, while not a bad thing, it can become out of balance if that is our main drive; while contribution fuels the soul. Accomplishment is completely attached to outcome whereas contribution is not attached to outcome but is a reward in and of itself.

3. Cutting ties

As the gardener that is lovingly guarding the sprouting from weeds and predators, you are doing the same by distancing yourself from critical and negative people. This healing journey will have you feeling vulnerable and open, which is a beautiful place to be, however, it is a fragile time and should be guarded vigilantly to ensure that only the right nourishment is being received. During this time of your life, you’ll benefit from supportive people who will encourage you to grow, not unsupportive people who will drag you through the mud. Remember that the power is in your hands. It is up to you to decide who stays and goes in your life. If someone is frequently discrediting, underrating, or bad-mouthing you, take steps to remove them from your life. You are worth the effort!

4.  The CCS therapy 

This method is a personal favorite, and really helped me feel connected to myself. The CCS therapy is Color, Crystal and Sound therapy. Solar plexus is associated to the color yellow. Yellow is one of the most luminous colors in the spectrum and represents sunshine, hope, positivity, and energy. I preferred wearing yellow, either a dress or top. When I wore this color I felt uplifted and desired to be seen in all of my glory! Crystals are a great vibrational healing tool. Citrine, Tigers eye, or Golden Calcite to name a few. You can wear them as jewelry, keep them in your pocket, or lay flat and rest them on the abdomen and receive their healing vibrations. I recommend a guided meditation if you choose to have them rest on you. Lastly, Sound therapy, the Manipura Chakra is associated to the “Ram” or intone vowel sound of “ahhh”. Saying these sounds in synch with wearing yellow and/or holding/resting with the associated crystals helps strengthen your connection to your self.




Full Moon in Sagittarius May 2018


A Full moon occurs when the moon is opposite from the sun; Currently the Sun is transiting in Gemini and the moon is transiting through Sagittarius. This means they are on opposite sides of the zodiac wheel.

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This highlights our opposing inner forces; such as needs vs. wants, work vs. home, desires vs. responsibilities, internal vs. external etc. what ever that may be, there is some sort of tension, conflict, or pulling we are feeling typically around a full moon. Also the moon highlights our connection to emotions, women or feminine energy in our lives, family or home, the way you nurture or receive nurturing.

A Full moon has its connection with the New Moon; those seeds of intentions that you planted or set forth, you may begin to see these come into fruition or more fine tuned or you may be urged to make an emotional adjustment towards your intentions. The moon’s lunar qualities are all about shifts and adjustments.

Sagittarius is the 9th sign of the zodiac, the third fire sign, Aries and Leo being the previous two, and she is symbolized as the Archer or Centaur. Sagittarius energy manifests through enlightenment, travel and truth-seeking. Curious Sagittarius is the sage that makes us hunger to expand and learn, sending us on adventures to determine the meaning of existence. Astrology site The Moon Woman described Sagittarius as a sign “who leaves convention to take up the quest for greater meaning”. She is governed by Jupiter, the planet of joy, expansion, fortune and luck, wisdom and higher learning, and travel.  As the third and final fire sign, it harnesses Aries’ trailblazing and Leo’s fiery leadership into a cosmic supernova of universal wisdom and action. Sagittarius is the inspirer and eternal optimist of the zodiac, challenging us to go big and seek limitless possibilities

So now that we have some background information on the moon and Sagittarius, let’s discuss the Full moon in Sagittarius:

The Full moon takes place on May 29, the same day Mercury, the planet of message and communication, transits into its ruling sign of Gemini; with the Sun and Mercury in Gemini and with the Full moon in Sagittarius, there is much focus on our message, communication, words, and attention to how we communicate or share ideas and feelings.  When these two signs come together we are being showed how is our message either positive and loving or is too logical and cold. Are you speaking life and positivity over your life and intentions, or are you cold and harsh to yourself and others? Are we ego driven or soul driven? Where is your peace of mind, what gives you peace of mind?

This moon is having us to reflect and come into the fullness of our truths, breaking free from the inner and external restrictions of expression. AND BEING AWARE how quickly our thoughts and words will manifest in our lives.

Also note, May 29, 2018 is a double 11 portal!

  • 29 reduces to 11 (2+9=11)

    2018 is an 11 Universal Year (2+0+1+8=11)

11 is the gateway of PRESENT MOMENT – a portal into love, abundance, compassion, intimate connections.
For this Full Moon, 11 is a gateway into everything Sagittarius represents – the quest for truth, travel, freedom, adventure, optimism, finding solutions, deep gratitude and fortunate expansion – feeling lucky and blessed.

Today’s Zodiac Chart (May 28, 2018, 5:25pm EST)


Just a few things to note in this week, The Full moon is Sextile (think of it as the planets are making love to each other) to Mars in Aquarius, given us a new directional force with our actions. Observe where this new direction is taking you and act on your goals and instincts. Mars is also squaring (contention or wake up call) with Uranus in Taurus, you are feeling deep desire for freedom or independence. Putting your ideas and inspiration into a practical way that leads to action. Be aware not to act irrational, breathe through this and be receptive to inspiration and creativity, then act on or in a way that your spirit is leading you.

The Full moon is Semi-sextile (flirting going 1st base) to Saturn in Capricorn. Saturn is the great teacher and disciplinarian, and with this transit is asking us to be responsible and become are aware of where we need to readjust our risk and stay grounded. Sagittarius is all about throwing caution out the window, however, Saturn wants us to do that intelligently.

This moon energy is all about finding and following our true path, aligning with our authentic vision and our highest aspirations. Take a moment and focus on the journey like the Curious Sagittarius. There is an adventure ahead!


I WILL NOT settle for less. 

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